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Social Networking

Social networking sites are platforms and online communities that are designed to connect people together. These websites allow you to build a profile and connect with others while sharing personal information, common interests, pictures, videos, music, activities, and more. Examples of social networking sites are Facebook, Myspace, and Bebo. While you may be concerned when your children join a social networking site, it doesn't mean they're in danger. Social networking sites are places online where young people go to socialize with their friends, talk to people with similar interests, and share what's going on in their lives. But these sites can also be places where kids post something inappropriate or meet the wrong people. Cyberbullying often occurs on social networking sites. The most important thing you can do to protect your child on these sites is to get involved and regularly check his or her profile.

  
 

  
What to look for on Social Networking Sites

It is important to check the following sections on your children's social networking profiles and to understand them and their concepts. Speak with your children about online predators to help keep them safe from victimization and about internet safety to educate them on the do's and don'ts of the internet.

 

  • Profile Picture: This is the picture that will appear next to your child's name. It is too revealing? Is there anything inappropriate, like nudity, alcohol, or drugs? Make sure you approve before it goes public.
  • Username: This is either your child's real name or a nickname. Using a real name isn't bad; it just means you have to look more closely at the privacy settings and contacts.
  • Account Settings: This is where you'll go to adjust your child's privacy settings. Go through each option slowly. Always ask yourself - what is on the profile and who can see it?
  • Comments/Wall: This is where you child's friends post messages. Delete any inappropriate comments and don't forget to check what your child is posting on others' pages, too.
  • Ads/Apps: Most social networks have ads and applications from 3rd parties, like games and fan pages. If your children click on these or add them to their profiles, they may be allowing access to their personal information or letting in a computer virus. Have a discussion about what's ok to add and what's not.
  • Photos/Albums: What kinds of photos is your child sharing? Who can see them? Check for anything inappropriate, like nudity, alcohol, or drugs.
  • Friends/Contacts: This is a list of everyone your child has accepted as a friend/contact. It may include people you don't know, or even people your child only know online. Go through each contact together and decide if each is an appropriate friend for your child.
  • Information/About Me: Here your children can post personal information, including where they live, where they go to school, who they're dating, etc. Check what they're sharing and delete anything you think is too much information.

 

  
5 Positive Things Your Child Can Do On Social Networking Sites
  1. Create family photo albums. What better way to keep your distant relatives up-to-date on your family's activities.
  2. Champion a cause. From animal rights to bullying awareness, social networking sites are the place to go for social activists.
  3. Join a group. Niche communities have found a home on social networking sites where people can connect and discuss their interests with like-minded people.
  4. Market a talent. Stars are born every day online. No need to move to Hollywood to pursue that recording contract: with one hit video the producers will come to you!
  5. Find a college. Social networking makes it easier to chat with college students and faculty, so your child can make an informed decision about where to go to school.

Source: www.netsmartz.org

 

  
 
 
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